For the assignment this week, I am tasked with choosing three items of importance that represent my family culture. The three items that I chose are my wedding ring, a locket for my daughter, and a photo album with family pictures. I chose my wedding ring because it represents my strong love and bonded relationship with my husband. Instead of a traditional diamond for the center stone, it has a ruby, which represents my daughter Ruby. I chose a locket for my daughter because it was a Christmas present from my husband to our daughter, and it contains a picture of myself and of my husband, for Ruby to always remember we love and care for her. I chose a photo album because it is important to remember how fast things change and how many memories we have shared together. If I could only keep one of the above items, I would choose to keep the photo album because pictures are priceless and could never be replaced. I would be sad to let go of the locket and ring, but I would be grateful that I have my family.
"Most of the time, people do not even notice their culture, just as we do not notice that we live in a sea of air" (Derman-Sparks & Edwards, 2010, p. 55). From completing this assignment it made me realize how true this statement really is. I found it very difficult to try to explain to others the reason for my choices and the meaning of the items I chose to be most important. My culture is just who I am.
Reference:
Derman-Sparks, L., & Edwards, J.O. (2010). Anti-bias education for young children and ourselves. Washington, DC: National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC).
Laureate Education. (2011). Family cultures: Dynamic interactions [Video file]. Retrieved from https://class.waldenu.edu